5 Common Mistakes Women Make

Believe it or not, women make mistakes in dating too. Contrary to popular belief, not all guys are willing to look over a woman’s mistake just because of her extravagant beauty. Girls, if you want to grab a real winner then try to avoid these 5 common mistakes.

1. Clingy Behavior Clingy behavior is a turn off with most men. Men are commitment phobic to begin with, so a woman totally submitting herself and following a man wherever he goes is the emotional equivalent of chasing a guy with a giant pair of scissors! Understand that some women may not even know that they are acting “clingy.” Be careful about over-contacting him, overdoing public displays of affection and “popping in” unannounced.

2. Over-Submission Every guy likes the idea of a friendly and supporting woman. However, not as many guys are into the “harem” lifestyle as you might think. In other words, don’t be overly submissive by saying yes to everything he suggests. This holds true in discussion as well as in planning future dates. A guy might become suspicious if you seem overly eager to please.

3. Sleeping With Him Too Soon Just because men want sex on the first date shouldn’t mean you give it to them! Some men tend to lose interest in a new prospect after things get intimate too soon. Doing this basically gives him the “fruit” of the new relationship long before the two of you start planting the tree. Yes, in other words, you miss out on a lot of good conversation and emotional attachment before the sex happens.

4. Betting On His Potential Rather Than Him Many women prefer to blind themselves to a lover’s flaws, assuming that he has so much potential, that he will probably work out in the long run. This is a costly mistake! Never bet on a man’s potential. It’s not fair to you or him. Some people are capable of change and others are not. However, few if any can ever successfully change a partner. You could very well be miserable in a few years, finally realizing that your partner’s potential will be forever unrealized!

5. Sharing Too Much Information Men scare easily, and talking too much will usually work against you rather than for you. Try to maintain a calm and steady composure. Talk normally and listen to what your date says. Don’t be afraid to speak your opinions but don’t conclude that you must speak every thought that comes into your head. Be weary about sharing private information about your past, about strange thoughts you may have, and about any controversial subject matter. Maintain the mystery and stop yourself from sharing too much too soon.

Remembering these five mistakes puts you in a higher caliber of womanhood. You are the type of girl that guys love because they can’t quite figure you out!